Are you normal?

Unconventional—this was my first thought about this Baptist church in Montreal.

I noticed the ceiling in the packed auditorium was much lower than I expected for a big church, and the front-row seats were placed uncomfortably close to the pulpit. I thought the congregation was overly enthusiastic and the untimely yelling, laughing, and Amens were all unnecessary.

I was busy noticing the superficial until the first preacher opened the Bible and delivered his message for the evening. I was struck. His sermon focused on revival, as that was the whole point of the conference.

He made statements that piqued my curiosity, and I began to wonder if he was right. My mind questioned as I sat close to the back row, but I waited to let him finish so I could understand him better.

The guest speaker shouted in his preacher voice, “We don’t need revival every day!”

At the back of my head, I honestly thought we do. I thought that if the Lord’s mercy renews us every day, then revival should work the same way. But he explained that if we’re living our Christian life the way it ought to be lived, then we don’t need revival.

I thought that made sense.

Later, he mentioned the “biblical normalcy” of a Christian. I don’t think I have heard of this before. He explained that holiness and joy are a big part of a normal Christian life, and that revival means going back to biblical normalcy.

Then he looked to the mixed congregation and asked, “Are you normal tonight?”

During the invitation, the senior pastor added some stirring questions that pushed me to reexamine myself and how I perceive things.

I realize I have forgotten that Christianity ought to be joyful and that expressing genuine joy and yelling Amens, especially in the church, ought to be a natural thing to do. Sadly, it came off as unnatural to me.

The psalmist requested, “Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit… O Lord, open thou my lips; and my mouth shall shew forth thy praise.” (Psalm 51:12, 15).

I was instantly reminded of my personal need for revival. I need to revive that joy of my salvation. I want to openly express how grateful and blessed I am to be saved by the blood Jesus Christ shed.

As a child of God, I need to get back to normal.

I have heard people call out a fellow believer for being “too holy” or “too faithful.” Isn’t that God’s call for all of us? Think of Noah, Job, Daniel, or Joseph. Can we say they were being “too holy” or “too faithful?” These men of faith stood out to God for their unwavering faith. For Christians, that ought to be normal.

They seemed foolish and different to others, but really, there is nothing wrong with being normal.

Watchman Nee described in his book “The Normal Christian Life” how we must approach God not by our own attainment or abilities to worship him but through the natural power of the Holy Spirit that drives us to worship the Lord.

Nee wrote, “If we have to exert so much effort in our Christian living, it simply says that we are not really like that at all. We don’t need to force ourselves to speak our native language.”

Whatever is natural for all of us will soon come out naturally.

We may fool people by what we show on the outside, but God always pondereth the hearts. He knows our thoughts and our intentions. He knows exactly when we are normal, and when we are not.

Have hope.

A few days ago, I woke up to an alarming message from a friend asking anyone to reach out to a young man from the Philippines who posted a disturbing note and images on his Facebook account suggesting a plan to take his own life.

As I rushed to open his page, I saw a familiar face.

I suddenly remembered taking the guy’s graduation photo at a college some years ago. I can barely recall a personal interaction with him other than when he sat in front of my camera and smiled as I took his portrait. It all happened in a split second, but that moment built some kind of connection between him and me, a man who’s now feeling disconnected from God, hope, and life in general.

Hopelessness is a grave issue. Giving up on life and everything you lived for is a serious phase that needs to be faced—not with our own strength, but with God's strength and wisdom, and with the help of good counsel and genuine compassion from the people around us.

The Bible says, “It is not good that the man should be alone” (Genesis 2:18). God knew from the beginning that we all needed one another, or at least another one. He designed us to be social beings. Every day, we engage in either personal or online conversations. We build bridges to people we want to connect with, and great walls against those we choose to avoid.

Golden Gate Bridge opening day, May 27, 1937. (Credit: Prelinger Archives)

On May 27, 1937, San Francisco's towering suspension bridge, the Golden Gate Bridge, officially opened to the public after four years of construction. Today, more than ten million tourists visit the “most beautiful and most photographed bridge in the world” every year, averaging 27,000 visitors per day.

San Francisco, January 1, 2023 | Photo by Kevin Lendio

But beyond this powerful steel structure and its undeniable charm lie the broken and devastating stories of lost souls who came to commit suicide by jumping off the bridge.

According to The Times, the Golden Gate Bridge is the most used suicide spot in the world. Within the first seventy-five years after it opened in 1937, an estimated 1,400 bodies were recovered. Some died due to internal fractures after an impact from the fall, while others drowned or did not survive the intense freezing water.

Recently, local authorities have spent hundreds of millions of dollars to install suicide nets on the side of the bridge and put up anti-suicide warning signs and special telephones that connect to crisis hotlines.

Wherever we go in the world, no matter how rich or poor the country is, we can see the global poverty of hope creeping among us. If we’re not careful, we ourselves may fall into the enemy’s pit of deception.

The work of Satan has always been to lie and distract us with the worries of life and influence us to forget the promises of peace and hope that God offers in His Word.

“Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;)”

— Hebrews 10:23

“Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the Lord.”

— Psalm 31:24

“By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope:”

— Romans 5:2-4

As children of God, let us always remember to call on the Father, who can restore the joy of our salvation when we face challenges. Don’t ever run to drugs, alcohol, pride, anger, or death for solutions. These worldly ideas of relief are detriment to our mental health, our personal growth and to our spiritual revival. As believers saved by the grace of God, we should know better about who or where to run. Enter your closet and take a quiet moment with the Lord as you pour out your heart. Just you and Him.

Talk to a friend, a family member, a pastor, or a mature leader from your local church. A deep, heartfelt communication is one of the strong bridges God built for us to connect with one another.

A man from San Francisco who died after a jump had left a suicide note that reads, “I'm going to walk to the bridge. If one person smiles at me on the way, I won't jump.” A small gesture of kindness could have made a big difference to this man.

Communication is powerful. Communication can reignite hope. Communication proves we are not made to be alone.